POSTPONING HAPPINESS !

 Be in This Moment! Happiness is here…

 “The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness.” — Abraham Maslow

 Happiness is something everyone wants. And always seeking it everywhere, sometimes misunderstood it and seeking happiness only in wealth. This is not the exact way to be happy. It all starts with our needs, which never ever satisfied us. Like when we were child we didn't enjoy the school days, we didn't feel happy there, instead, we were thinking that we would be happy when we will pass out of school and will be in college because we compare happiness with freedom. We thought that in college when we would get freedom and we can go anywhere where ever we want without anybody's permission or we thought like we can take our decisions by ourselves and many more things, so we will be happy and thats why we missed our childhood. But as we were growing up we didn’t get satisfied and our needs increasing day by day, We thought that after passing from college we would get a good job so we will be happy, but this is not so. Now after getting a job, we want a promotion or another better job. We simply chasing money, actually at this age we thought that only money can make us happy, by the way, it can buy everything in the world. But unfortunately, again we didn't feel happy. Finally, we start searching for a good partner so that we will be settled in our life and start expecting from him or her that he or she will make us feel happy, but this time also we were wrong. Now after having kids, we start searching for happiness in them, for instance, if they will be well mannered and intelligent then we will be happy otherwise again we feel sad due to them. Now it's okay up to parenting, but even after these many years of searching for happiness we again start expecting our children to get married to the person of our choice, we thought that this will definitely make us happy, but this time also we were wrong. And after all these years of searching, we continue it till our last breath. But nobody in this world is happy in the present moment; they want more and more things or good relations to be happy. Actually, they rely their happiness on one or the other persons, or on things or money. But at last, we might not have heard like this that anyone is saying that he is a happy person, all have one or the other reason to be sad. So in our whole life, we struggled to chase happiness, even it would be in front of us, we postponed happiness likewise.

 We should live the present moments with whatever we have, never compare ourselves with the higher ones. Always see the people who have fewer things, fewer relations or less money than us. If we would compare our past from our present and we will see our achievements, then it would be a great reason for our happiness. So we should try to achieve more and more in our life and at the last of every month or six months we should evaluate our progress, which really inspires us to do better in life. Flashback can be a great motivation. Many people didn't get whatever they want in life but if they evaluate whatever they have presently in comparison to their past then they really feel happy because they got something very good for which they never wished for.