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  "Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have or do."- BRIAN TRACY. Yes, well said by "Brian Tracy" that “Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have or do." We ought to thank full to God for this beautiful life as human beings. This life is best chance to explore ourselves in every field. For this we should always focus on the positive things & keep inspiring ourselves by exploring to the surrounding. See nobody will come to us every time and will inspire us; this is the self initiative we can take towards our growth. We can do a lot of things instead of scrolling the social media apps, as many of the youngsters doing now a day. Make your mind your slave.  Don't work under your mind; make your mind your slave. This is the only way to achieve something.  Here, I am sharing one of my inspiring incidents, once I was playing the Housie game with my colleagues; I was a little bit nervous a...

MOTIVATION & SCOLDING "Swap, 'Why is this happening to me?' To 'What is this trying to teach me?'. It will change everything". - JAY SHETTY Motivation and scolding are well thought-out the backbone of a successful and disciplined individual. Motivation is of different types. Intrinsic and extrinsic are famous among all. Intrinsic motivation means when you are motivated from inside and extrinsic means when you are motivated by outside like by other people, situations, or observing something very deep. Now, I genuinely observed that motivation comes from scolding too. We usually hold our children, younger ones, or anyone around us. But a few of us observed the reason behind that. So the reason behind that scolding is to motivate someone when they got distracted from their goals or they are in the wrong direction. Scolding is sometimes proved to be a kind of great motivation in our lives.   Once, my new manager scolded me and my colleagues for 30 minute...

Recently one of my friends named Jasmeet got depressed. And the reason for her depression was her own family. Especially her mother, who always wants Jasmeet to get good marks, good job, which means everything must be like best, But practically it is not possible to get everything the best. In this life, we have to face failures too. But her mother always pokes her which in a result becomes the reason for her depression.   So after her counseling sessions now she is quite well and tries to ignore her mother's words. But still, the behavior of her mother is the same as before.    Like Jasmeet there was a man who got the same teachings from his parents, which means you have to do the best, no matter whatever the circumstances are. Since childhood, he heard to do best anyhow. He studied well in school and did his best in academics then after passing grade 12, got selected in IIT Delhi. Then when he had completed his Degree he placed in a well-known company in Califo...

          "Dussehra" also known as "Vijaya Dashami" is celebrated in India as one of the greatest festivals. As you are already familiar with the reasons behind this auspicious day of Vijaya Dashmi, there are many reasons to celebrate this day.         But, but, but... every time you just recall the same reasons which you memorize and heard from your elder ones, no one of you uses your own mind to find out at least a single reason by yourself. There is a lot to think about this day. You can relate this day with the present scenario too, or what is the importance of this day in your life?             I remember when I was in school I used to write an essay on Dussehra, and whenever I wrote something different from the actual one given by the teacher, my marks got cut. So, that was only the specific matter which I had to write and my creativity of writing ended up for marks. It happens with many of you also, w...

  Women- The only individual who makes your house a home.  But what I felt personally women are not treated as the most important part of our home in my own surrounding. Even their own husband & children disrespect them just because of some stereotypes of our society. Now amid this biggest Pandemic of this era- " COVID-19" women stuck with their children at homes. The almost whole day she spends in cooking & doing house chores. Her life becomes so messier. So instead of discussing the importance of women in our society.  I would prefer to discuss how women can organize their daily schedules. This point of view is for those women who are playing the role of mother at home, As a mother, you should teach your children to do their work by themselves. Ask your children to help you in the kitchen. Whether your children might be a girl or a boy, you should teach them these things equally. You can ask your son to help out in kitchen work, while you can ask your daughter t...

BENEVOLENCE - GOOD OR BAD? IS HELPING OTHERS A SIN? 🐝 See this innocent but quite dangerous 'Bee' came & stuck on my laptop... - Sometimes people really wanna help but because of their nature, they can't. How many of you helped such creatures? Of course, your answer would be no. But you have not thought upon this why you never help them, you simply follow this habit in your behavior since a childhood that you are not supposed to help them, because they might harm you. This gradually becomes your practice. So this was all about human thinking, the way of your socialization takes place. But this is among the very common habit of every individual to ignore the problems of creatures like this Honey Bee, Lions, Tiger; Snakes because when you help them, there are  99% chances, that they would harm you. You would get your reward for benevolence as a harmful action by these creatures. That's why humans do not generally help such creatures. However, this tendency of harmi...

"HEALTHY USE OF TECHNOLOGY" In the 21st century, the use of technology is a must for everyone. We can not do a lot of things without technology. Especially mobile phones become a basic human need for us. If we relate this with the "Maslow's Hierarchy of human needs" Then we feel that there is an important role of technology in our life now. I have a personal experience that people cannot live without their mobile phones, Now it became their first priority. If we talk about children, So they also became a cell phone addicted people. And due to Pandemic COVID-19, Unfortunately, we all are trapping our life in the cage of technology. It's not our fault that we overusing the technology but as it became the compulsion for us to use this, sometimes a major cause of this. But this use of technology is gradually converted into the addiction of technology, suppose if I ask anyone to live without a mobile phone for an hour then, they would definite...

  Storms... Some storms are good & some are bad. Some storms clear your path & Some make it messier. Some make us strong & some fully destroy us. Some bring raindrops & some floods. But either good or bad, for sure it will come & we all have to face.       So, why don't you prepare yourself to handle this? Until the end of time remember this statement. “Nothing you can't handle will come before you.” Every storm is different; if it would be hilly areas it brings a lot of landslides & cloud burst & if it is in coastal areas then it will bring floods. So, Storm is not similar for everyone & everywhere. It is poles apart for all. Now you see that people of different landforms are habitual of dealing with the natural calamities of their regions. So if natural things make you that much powerful to handle such storms, then you can also try to make yourself powerful by thoughts… it’s just a mind game. The only thing is that you have to adjust...

 MINDFULNESS...🙂 MINDFULNESS...🙂   BEING PRESENT WITHOUT JUDGEMENT IN EVERY MOMENT. The mind is the main part of every creature because no matter what is going around us is the outcome of our mental processes. Whatever we think inside our minds is the only way we react outside. So why don't we rule over our minds? Yes, it can be achievable this is just a power of thinking which at times gives us positive emotions and sometimes negative. If we rule over our mind then we can effortlessly face countless challenges in our life, we can also deal with the negative circumstances of life's journey. We can rule our mind by doing meditation, by following some spiritual public figures, who can guide us in positive ways. If you are facing troubles in life then forever and a day remembers to be happy with positive & deal with the negative. Make it your habit that this is the veracity of life and anyhow you have to deal with it. Accept the good things and deal with the bad ones. Don...

"There is no greater hell than to be a prisoner of the past." Prisoner of past(Never be a prisoner of your past, it was just a lesson, not a life sentence.) . Yes, it’s a factual sentence. Never be a prisoner of the past, because it makes your life like hell. Our life is full of changes; change is the rule of this world. Life has its three phases past, present, and future, But the saddest thing is most of us make our life like hell by dwelling in the past. The additional two phases are like the world we left behind and the world we are waiting for. Now if you dwell in the past, then being its prisoner you cannot take pleasure in your present and future as well. Many things happen with you and have to face a lot of challenges too but to overthink those things all the time will make you depressed. You cannot spotlight your goals until you take liberty from that prison of the past. Several times we go through a lot of hardships, sometimes we detached from our loved ones, and s...