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Maintenance is always cheaper than repairing... Every single object needs maintenance, if not done on time it may need repairing. Maintenance is cheaper than repairing anything. It may be your house, any machine, your own body, or your relationships. Everything needs good maintenance on time. Through this, it conveys a very good message that if we do small things rightly and timely have a greater impact than big things done after things go bad. Let us suppose about your body if you are giving proper maintenance, like proper diet, exercise, and good care, then there will be fewer chances to go to the doctor. The same thing with your mind also, if you will do meditation regularly, then the chances of stress and anxiety will be fewer, which in results, saves you from the risk of any big disease. In the same way, it impacts objects like houses and types of machinery.  But but but...it has a great impact on your relationships also. If you will not give proper maintenance to your relatio...

 Life is a one-time journey, things & people come and go from your life. Nothing is permanent in this world. Our life is full of insecurities. Each moment is different. Every time we can't question what is happening to us. Sometimes the flow of moments doesn't need to be questioned or not everything needs a reaction. Sometimes we should learn to sit back and observe, without giving any reaction. Observance is a great skill, once we learn this we would feel great peace of mind. If we would give a reaction to everything and the situation, our life would get messy, it ends up the peace of mind. So it's better to be silent, let the one who creates the word speak. He made the door. He made the lock. He made the key. Questioning is not the way to change the situation. Stop running around in confusion. There was never a past, and there will never be a future. You have all the time right now, here at the moment, to do that what your soul desires. We can learn many new things by...

Sometimes, satisfaction leads to your destruction, it takes you to the wrong path. You know why because when you start allowing yourself to settle for something low, you start losing your worth at the same time. Sometimes your feeling of insecurity says that what would happen if I will not get a good one if I will leave this in search of better. Many of us use t think like this, we use to settle for low. I can give a very good example of your dream job if you will not get your dream job but you got one small job which can full fill your basic needs, obviously, if you will think that now I should join this job or else I would lose this good job in search of better one. This instance shows us that somewhere down the lane we have insecurities in our mind which leads us to the wrong path or wrong direction which are not actually meant for us. Sometimes in our life, when we are in hurry for settlement in relationships, we might be caught up in the wrong relation, So be careful and have pati...

   Happy new year!  The first day of the "Chaitra" marks the beginning of the Hindu solar new year. From today a new month begins according to Vikram samvat calendar named "Chaitra". This day has a lot many significance. Here are some significances of this day. As we Indians never stop celebrating festivals, even in the Biggest Pandemic crisis, it is because we tied up with our culture very deeply. These festivals bring excitement to our minds, a kind of positivity comes automatically. This is because the rituals we follow are scientifically working in a positive direction for our health as well as for our mind. VAISAKHI # It marks the beginning of the Hindu solar new year. # It is the historical & religious festival of Sikhism. # Vaisakhi's significance in Sikhism is the birth of the Sikh order started after the persecution and execution of "GURU TEGH BAHADUR" for refusing to convert to Islam under the orders of the Mughal Emperor "AURANGZEB...

One step towards change! It's time to bring change in this male dominating society, gradually the change is coming but somewhere down the lane still we need to work more on this. What I figure out regarding all this is women's perception towards other women and here we women lack. If you ever noticed then in 99% of cases you have found women to gossip and criticize other women, but you haven't found men gossip about other men, and here unity begins. Many women usually criticize other women on their back regarding their looks, their personal issues, their character, their relationships, and many more.  Is this helpful in women's growth?  Are we women giving our contribution to the development of women? Absolutely No, here we should be like men. Actually, they never criticize other men for their character, their looks, their personal matters, and so on. They have a great unity among them.  One of my far friends use to do this, she uses to criticize other women on ...

 Be in This Moment! Happiness is here…   “The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness.” — Abraham Maslow   Happiness is something everyone wants. And always seeking it everywhere, sometimes misunderstood it and seeking happiness only in wealth. This is not the exact way to be happy. It all starts with our needs, which never ever satisfied us. Like when we were child we didn't enjoy the school days, we didn't feel happy there, instead, we were thinking that we would be happy when we will pass out of school and will be in college because we compare happiness with freedom. We thought that in college when we would get freedom and we can go anywhere where ever we want without anybody's permission or we thought like we can take our decisions by ourselves and many more things, so we will be happy and thats why we missed our childhood. But as we were growing up we didn’t get satisfied and our needs increasing day by day, We thought that aft...

EDUCATION BREEDS CONFIDENCE. CONFIDENCE BREEDS HOPE. HOPE BREEDS PEACE. Behind this picture, there is one hidden story. Those were my college days when I was doing the bachelor's in Education from BSSS Bhopal. It was the day when we had the last external exam, And so we had the last photoshoot altogether. This picture is among one of them. Now lately this picture kept as hoarding on the campus of BSSS, which is like wow for us.  I relate to this that it's good to collect good moments instead of collecting things. Moments would remind you again and again of all those memories created by you in your past which makes you feel pleasant. while things will not going to make you feel happy, Because material things are material things. We are here to live a life by creating more and more good moments, so when we will not be here at least those good memories will remain with others. 

TRUST THE PROCESS Life is like a complete year of 365 days with four different seasons, each season has its own importance. The most important thing is that all seasons come after a change which is very painful. These four seasons are different phases of our lives. There are many ups and downs in our life. Our life is like a tree, sometimes it's fully green, sometimes it's without leaves, sometimes it's full of fruits, and sometimes it's full of flowers. In the same way, our life goes on, with different phases. And if we will not enjoy the autumn season, then we'll not be able to praise the spring season. It shows that if in our life we will not face difficulties and negative situations, then we will not be able to find out the difference between good and bad. Bad situations are a must in our life so that we value the good ones. So appreciate each step in your life, no one knows this small step will lead you towards the biggest achievement of your life. Trust the pr...

 LESSONS FROM 2020 1. Time is a precious thing which we have. If we'll not value it, then definitely we'll regret it later. 2. Sometimes God pushes you into the deep valley So that you would learn to climb out of it. It will make you stronger than ever before. 3. Your Happiness doesn't dwell in material things or any person actually, it is within you. 4. Invest your time and money in yourself is the biggest gift you can give to yourself. Learn new skills, go for your passion, and your hobbies will make you feel superb. 5. Solitude doesn't mean to be alone, it means you get a golden time to be with yourself, to know more about yourself. Knowing yourself better will enhance your confidence because now you know about your strengths & weaknesses very well. 6. Don't make long term plans, because who knows we will be alive tomorrow or not. Work in the present for the present. Just be prepared for every new challenge. 7. Spending time with your loved ones is a precious...

2020...The year taught us to flow with things. "In the end, only three things matter: How much you loved, How gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you."- BUDDHA It's time to say bye-bye to the year which was full of hustle-bustle. This was a little harder year for everyone, but, We have learned a lot this year. When we were starting our year 2020, the sudden outbreak of COVID-19 has shaken everyone. Everyone was ready with their plans for this year but "the Pandemic" of the era has changed everyone's story in a while. Some of us learn to live at home for days, whereas someone stuck in different cities for months due to the unexpected lockdown of the country. While a large number of daily wage workers suffered a lot, as they migrated back to their villages, children stuck at home with a huge burden of their studies. The country's economical balance has also affected. With all these things happening, now the most valuable...

  "Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have or do."- BRIAN TRACY. Yes, well said by "Brian Tracy" that “Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have or do." We ought to thank full to God for this beautiful life as human beings. This life is best chance to explore ourselves in every field. For this we should always focus on the positive things & keep inspiring ourselves by exploring to the surrounding. See nobody will come to us every time and will inspire us; this is the self initiative we can take towards our growth. We can do a lot of things instead of scrolling the social media apps, as many of the youngsters doing now a day. Make your mind your slave.  Don't work under your mind; make your mind your slave. This is the only way to achieve something.  Here, I am sharing one of my inspiring incidents, once I was playing the Housie game with my colleagues; I was a little bit nervous a...

MOTIVATION & SCOLDING "Swap, 'Why is this happening to me?' To 'What is this trying to teach me?'. It will change everything". - JAY SHETTY Motivation and scolding are well thought-out the backbone of a successful and disciplined individual. Motivation is of different types. Intrinsic and extrinsic are famous among all. Intrinsic motivation means when you are motivated from inside and extrinsic means when you are motivated by outside like by other people, situations, or observing something very deep. Now, I genuinely observed that motivation comes from scolding too. We usually hold our children, younger ones, or anyone around us. But a few of us observed the reason behind that. So the reason behind that scolding is to motivate someone when they got distracted from their goals or they are in the wrong direction. Scolding is sometimes proved to be a kind of great motivation in our lives.   Once, my new manager scolded me and my colleagues for 30 minute...

Recently one of my friends named Jasmeet got depressed. And the reason for her depression was her own family. Especially her mother, who always wants Jasmeet to get good marks, good job, which means everything must be like best, But practically it is not possible to get everything the best. In this life, we have to face failures too. But her mother always pokes her which in a result becomes the reason for her depression.   So after her counseling sessions now she is quite well and tries to ignore her mother's words. But still, the behavior of her mother is the same as before.    Like Jasmeet there was a man who got the same teachings from his parents, which means you have to do the best, no matter whatever the circumstances are. Since childhood, he heard to do best anyhow. He studied well in school and did his best in academics then after passing grade 12, got selected in IIT Delhi. Then when he had completed his Degree he placed in a well-known company in Califo...

          "Dussehra" also known as "Vijaya Dashami" is celebrated in India as one of the greatest festivals. As you are already familiar with the reasons behind this auspicious day of Vijaya Dashmi, there are many reasons to celebrate this day.         But, but, but... every time you just recall the same reasons which you memorize and heard from your elder ones, no one of you uses your own mind to find out at least a single reason by yourself. There is a lot to think about this day. You can relate this day with the present scenario too, or what is the importance of this day in your life?             I remember when I was in school I used to write an essay on Dussehra, and whenever I wrote something different from the actual one given by the teacher, my marks got cut. So, that was only the specific matter which I had to write and my creativity of writing ended up for marks. It happens with many of you also, w...

  Women- The only individual who makes your house a home.  But what I felt personally women are not treated as the most important part of our home in my own surrounding. Even their own husband & children disrespect them just because of some stereotypes of our society. Now amid this biggest Pandemic of this era- " COVID-19" women stuck with their children at homes. The almost whole day she spends in cooking & doing house chores. Her life becomes so messier. So instead of discussing the importance of women in our society.  I would prefer to discuss how women can organize their daily schedules. This point of view is for those women who are playing the role of mother at home, As a mother, you should teach your children to do their work by themselves. Ask your children to help you in the kitchen. Whether your children might be a girl or a boy, you should teach them these things equally. You can ask your son to help out in kitchen work, while you can ask your daughter t...

BENEVOLENCE - GOOD OR BAD? IS HELPING OTHERS A SIN? 🐝 See this innocent but quite dangerous 'Bee' came & stuck on my laptop... - Sometimes people really wanna help but because of their nature, they can't. How many of you helped such creatures? Of course, your answer would be no. But you have not thought upon this why you never help them, you simply follow this habit in your behavior since a childhood that you are not supposed to help them, because they might harm you. This gradually becomes your practice. So this was all about human thinking, the way of your socialization takes place. But this is among the very common habit of every individual to ignore the problems of creatures like this Honey Bee, Lions, Tiger; Snakes because when you help them, there are  99% chances, that they would harm you. You would get your reward for benevolence as a harmful action by these creatures. That's why humans do not generally help such creatures. However, this tendency of harmi...

"HEALTHY USE OF TECHNOLOGY" In the 21st century, the use of technology is a must for everyone. We can not do a lot of things without technology. Especially mobile phones become a basic human need for us. If we relate this with the "Maslow's Hierarchy of human needs" Then we feel that there is an important role of technology in our life now. I have a personal experience that people cannot live without their mobile phones, Now it became their first priority. If we talk about children, So they also became a cell phone addicted people. And due to Pandemic COVID-19, Unfortunately, we all are trapping our life in the cage of technology. It's not our fault that we overusing the technology but as it became the compulsion for us to use this, sometimes a major cause of this. But this use of technology is gradually converted into the addiction of technology, suppose if I ask anyone to live without a mobile phone for an hour then, they would definite...